It all started in the 90′s with the groundbreaking The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Immensely popular, the book, recordings, workshops, and seminars changed the way millions of people like you and me manage their lives.
I discovered The Seven Habits when it first came out. Actually, I discovered it through my husband who had been sent to a time management/effectiveness workshop by his employer. I am not implying that my husband had a time management problem….. It was not a corrective measure! It was new, it was a revelation! It was THE workshop to attend for managers of any level. My husband came back from his workshop with a new “I will conquer my Daily Planner” attitude……and the book.
Covey’s “abundance mindset” concept, and “upward spiral” model, for example, are powerful self-growth and self-improvement tools. If you opt for the belief that there are enough resources and success to share with others, you can move from destructive insecurities to celebrating the success of others, rather than be threatened by it. This mindset is useful in the workplace, no doubt, but it truly applies to all areas in our lives. You would be surprised!


Covey presents an approach to being effective in attaining goals by aligning oneself to what he calls “true north” principles of a character ethic that he presents as universal and timeless, proven principles of fairness, integrity, honesty, and human dignity. This will never get old; it will always hold true.
I have found the following description of the book’s content. This will give you a good idea of the true value of your gift. Or you might decide this is the perfect gift for yourself!
Each chapter is dedicated to one of the habits, which are represented by the following imperatives:
The First Three Habits surround moving from dependence to independence (i.e. self mastery)
Synopsis: Take initiative in life by realizing your decisions (and how they align with life’s principles) are the primary determining factor for effectiveness in your life. Taking responsibility for your choices and the subsequent consequences that follow.
- Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind
Synopsis: Self-discover and clarify your deeply important character values and life goals. Envisioning the ideal characteristics for each of your various roles and relationships in life.
- Habit 3: Put First Things First
Synopsis: Planning, prioritizing, and executing your week’s tasks based on importance rather than urgency. Evaluating if your efforts exemplify your desired character values, propel you towards goals, and enrich the roles and relationships elaborated in Habit 2.
The Next Three are to do with Interdependence (i.e. working with others)
- Habit 4: Think Win-Win or No Deal
Synopsis: Genuinely striving for mutually beneficial solutions or agreements in your relationships. Valuing and respecting people by understanding a “win” for all is ultimately a better long-term resolution than if only one person in the situation had gotten their way.
- Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, then to be Understood
Synopsis: Using empathetic listening to be genuinely influenced by a person, which compels them to reciprocate the listening, take an open mind to being influenced by you, which creates an atmosphere of caring, respect, and positive problem solving.
Synopsis: Combining the strengths of people through positive teamwork, so as to achieve goals no one person could have done alone. How to yield the most prolific performance out of a group of people through encouraging meaningful contribution, and modeling inspirational and supportive leadership.
The Last habit relates to self-rejuvenation;
Synopsis: The balancing and renewal of your resources, energy, and health to create a sustainable long-term effective lifestyle.
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